Beginner Ballerina Profile: Polly

trendsetterPolly, previously a figure skater as a kid and then a serious runner, first started taking ballet after taking her daughter to classes. She decided ballet ballet would be a way to add grace and beauty to her life.

Here’s Polly’s ballet story:

I took the first ballet class of my life in Sept. 2013 — at age 47. I take my daughter to Opus Dance Studio in Ashland, Ohio. She is 10 and is in a low-intermediate class. This past summer I drank in every single moment of her classes – it was all I could do to stay in my seat. It’s just something that I’ve always wanted to do and I decided I wasn’t getting any younger. The director let me join the low-intermediates too. Walking in on the first day took immense courage.

As a younger person, I figure skated throughout my elementary school years, and then became a serious runner. I was always sort of a sturdy, muscular, competitive type – nothing ethereal about me. I decided that ballet would be a way to add grace and beauty to my life and help me get a grip on my core. I have five children and haven’t felt completely at home in this body for some time.

I”ve been going to class 3 x a week. Some days are better than others. I’ve cried tears of frustration and tears of joy. Several things are difficult for me, including jetes. I am flexible in the hamstrings but not so much in the hip. Stretching an arabesque at the barre is nearly impossible. Grand plies in 4th are also hard for me. And memorizing combos! My middle aged brain works a lot slower than those of the teenagers around me. I’ve been told that I “muscle my way through everything” so am trying to work on being more languid. There is no way I can compare myself to the young people around me, but it’s hard, because I still feel 12 yrs old in my head. Where did the time go?

I love ronde de jambs because they make me feel tall and pretty ( I am 5’4 and size 12-14), and also balance’s, because they are so much fun. Every once in a while I will just forget myself and dance like there’s nobody watching, and that is when it’s the most joyful — that as chubby and clumsy as I am, I have this healthy body that still works. There is one other mother in her 40’s at the studio. She is advanced but sometimes will come to our class and together we make up the “peri-menopausal corner” of the room. That makes me laugh.

I’m not sure what my dance plans are. There is so much to learn, and I”m only a brand new beginner. I’ll keep taking classes as long as the money holds out. Would love to add tap at some point. I’m inspired by other older beginners that I see on the internet. I also love to watch all the girls at the studio. So many body types and yet they all dance beautifully. There is no time like the present. If you have a dream, it’s time to go for it.

I do not have a blog. Once upon a time I was a newspaper reporter, but I’ve been home taking care of my children for years. I love old books, strong coffee, knitting with wool, and hiking with my family.

Hairstyles for Growing out your Bangs via Pinterest

Image via https://www.facebook.com/itskatiemartin

Image via https://www.facebook.com/itskatiemartin

I have a love/hate relationship with my bangs–half of the time I want to chop them super short and half of the time I want to grow them out so that I don’t always have to clip them up when my hair goes up into a bun for ballet or a messy bun for running. Although I wish that I could rock bangs like Katie Martin from Breaking Pointe–they would probably fail on my face. So instead, I’m testing out my patience once again by attempting to grow out my bangs.

I’m pretty much a Pinterest Hair and Beauty addict–I love using it to find some new hairstyles, new hair colors (I’m tempted to go red all over again thanks to Pinterest!). I’ve currently been digging around to find some hairstyles that’ll be perfect for hiding my awkward-length bangs:

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The side bang braid used to be my go to look soon after Quinn Fabray started rocking them on Glee. I love them so much that there’s even a god-awful tutorial made by yours truly out there on YouTube if you look for it. (Image via http://www.fashionmavenmommy.com/2013/04/french-bang-braid-video-tutorial.html)
Another one of my favorites is to twist up my bangs and pin them down to the side. I’ve even rocked this look with a low bun to ballet! (Image via http://www.pinterest.com/pin/211317407489561826/
Last but not least, I love pinning back my bangs with a little bit of a “poof” or no poof just to keep them out of my face! (Image via http://www.ihaveadegreeinthis.com/2012/02/7-ways-to-style-your-outgrown-bangs.html)

I frequently also rock a headband to keep those pesky bangs out of my face at class or while at home.Have you ever grown out your bangs before? How’d you keep them out of your face? Are you addicted to Pinterest like I am? Let me know in the comments!

Studios, Studio Reviews and Profiles in 2014

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Just a quick reminder–I’m always on the lookout for new people to profile for the Beginner Ballerina Profile series as well as new studios and studio reviews to add to the studio guide!

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Six Weeks and Counting: Injury Update and 2014 Goals

It’s been about six weeks since I went and I had an MRI done on my legs and discovered that in fact, had stress fractures. It really sucked, but it was nice to finally have an explanation for the pain I had experienced. For the next two weeks I plan on gradually adding back some of my PT exercises before attempting to gradually get back into the swing of things.

Even though it’s been relatively tough to not be at ballet or running, the holidays have certainly helped a bunch and I’ve kept busy with crocheting, coding, etc. I’m also working on yet another new website design using TwentyFourteen which is pretty cool (and more news-site, less blog which is a look I want to go for).

Rather than set resolutions (because everyone eventually just forgets those in a few weeks anyway), I’ve decided to set a few 2014 goals:

  • Read more often, borrow from our local library more. I don’t read often enough and it’s something I really miss. Any and all book suggestions welcome!
  • Learn more coding. The more and more I learn more coding, the more I think it’s something I’m potentially interested in going back to school for. Hoping to successfully complete Harvard’s Introduction to Computer Programming class this year with HQ. I’ll probably make the two of us blog about it.
  • Grow out my bangs. Seems kind of silly, but I always end up getting fed up with them and cutting them again. I’d like to be able to put my hair up into a bun without having to use a billion clips and bobby pins.
  • Get back into ballet. Fairly straight forward, but it’s going to take some work for me to not just jump back into it and instead start off with one class a week before moving to 2-3 classes a week. Baby steps.
  • Complete Couch25K Properly. Last time I skipped some levels and jumped around, so my aim this time is to actually follow all the steps to gradually get into running. Someone yell at me if I fail at this or jump too fast into ballet, too.
  • Blog and write more often. I’m hoping to write and blog more often, as well as read more blogs and get more involved in the blogging universe. I recently became a Girls Gone Sporty Ambassador, so I’m hoping that will help push me in the right direction, too.

What are your 2014 goals? What books should I add to my reading list? What are your favorite blogs right now?

Guest Post: Jealousy & Ballet

beachI adore my intermediate adult ballet class.  Days before I’m already daydreaming about the music and the rush I know I’ll experience from feeling my body struggle to provide the physical strength and mental concentration dance demands.

When we get a newcomer, a pattern usually emerges.  Things don’t flow for a while.  It takes them time to coordinate mind and body again.  Maybe it was because I had a knee injury and was away for a few months that it came as such a shock to me.  I mean, I should have been glad just to return to class, and I was, but it’s so tough to see what you so desperately want, right in front of you.  And newcomer really did pick the barre space right in front of me.

In the weeks I was gone, it all clicked for her.   I had to admit — she looked amazing.  My rational mind said she probably worked very hard to look like that, but, in reality, it was much easier to think, “Why can’t I look like that?”  Anger and disappointment soon followed — I was jealous!  Jealous and disappointed in myself for feeling so.   Weeks passed and although I’d lost some ground from my injury, I focused on things I hadn’t lost.   One day after class, this newcomer, whose name is Stacey, shared that she had been an apprentice with a modern dance company for a few years.   I admit — it was music to my ears.

Ballet is about pushing yourself.  Personally, it’s also about surprising myself.  Divine little moments where things go surprisingly right.   The beautiful realization that my joy, perseverance and fulfillment come from these magical moments.   That’s so powerful and I’d be a fool to let someone else’s beautiful lines or turnout take that away.